Well I am new to the online perals thing but my life is very busy so I thought I would give it a go. I'm a parent of a 9-year-old girl and a pretty demanding career. I am married so I'm looking for something extremely casual and discrete. He doesn’t know and I want to keep it that way. I am just looking for a little added spice ;) I would like to meet someone who will throw me down and take advantage of all I have to offer... a little stress relief is always a good thing ;) I'm kind of shy until I get to know you but overall a fun loving thrill seeker… I need someone willing to help me break out of my shell.... ;) I like being dominated in bed and the feeling that I am being ‘taken’ (sometimes rough is good). I enjoy lots of oral and foreplay, and enjoy hot wild wet sex for many hours. I also really enjoy reol-playin, it is sooo much fun! I do not like condoms and enjoy the feeling of when a man completes the act inside me. I am interested in being with two men at once, but I would have to have good chemistry and trust with both. I like light bondage and blindfolds with a trusted partner. I am std free and it is critical that you are also.

My Ideal Person I am not sure what I am looking for... but I prefer mature white men (35+), and that has good stamina and are hung. I am not really sure that I am looking for any certain thing. I know that I am NOT interested in a one-night stand... I guess I am looking for a friend with some physical advantages. I need to have a connection with someone mentally before physically. So if you are willing to invest a little time into getting to know me first I would love to hear from you.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
To have a man break into my house and 'take me' and
'use me' all day long while my daughter is at school
and husband is at work. Then for him to leave just before
they got home... then for me take shower pretend like nothing
had happened.... <br><br>
So hot! <br><br>
***Update 5/25/07*** The above IS a fantasy to be acted out consensually. It is
NOT a suggestion, please do not take it as such! I had an incident
at my home where two men acted out my fantasy without my consent,
and I think one of them was a Playdate from a few weeks back
and the other guy was his buddy. He knew that I could not go
to the authorities about what had happened cus I have to
be Discrete about my Play so my husband and family do not
find out. Simply because you know that I can not report anything
to authorities cus I have to be Discrete, Does not give you
the Right to take advantage of me in a non-consensual way.
I will not let this incident stop me from Playing or going
on PlayDates, but you guys should know that just cus you
know a girl has to be discrete and can't report anything
that happens, it is not cool to take advantage of that. And
to you two guys that did that to me... You are AssHoles! <br><br>
***Update 7/29/07*** This is Not funny! It happened again at my home! This time
four masked men broke into my home and used me! I am pretty
sure that none of them were either of the guys from the first
incident, so they must be friends of those guys or a different
set of guys from one of my other Playdates. They did all off
the things that I said I enjoyed in my profile and knew about
my discretion situation and where I live. They gang banged
me all morning and half the afternoon, but it is NOT fun for
me when it is done non-consensually due to there being a
lot of Fear of being Harmed that interferes with my ability
to enjoy it. Thank goodness I fully co-operated with them
so as to not risk angering them and being badly hurt by these
thugs. I was not seriously injuried during the incident,
but I was left very sore from the excessive fisting. One
of the men spanked me a lot, which I do NOT like since it leaves
bruising and marks and puts my need for discretion at risk.
Once again just because you know that I can not go make a report
to the authorities about what has happened do to my need
to be Discrete about my Play so my husband and family do not
find out, does not mean that you can do bad things to me. Please
stop abusing my need for discretion in this cruel way. Once
again I will not let these incidents stop me from Playing
or going on PlayDates, but I will be making a few changes
because of this second incident. First, I will be having
an alarm system installed very soon to prevent any further
occurrences. Second, I will no longer be Hosting at my home
while my family is away, nor will I be let any Playdates now
exactly where I live from now on. So if you want to Play you
will have to Host or Provide a hotel room for us to play. Remember
- that just cus you know a girl has to be discrete and can't
report anything that happens, it is not cool to take advantage
of that, as matter of a fact it is really messed up to abuse
women who need to be discrete like that. And to you the four
guys that did this to me AGAIN... You are Total AssHoles!
Remember - a Fastasy is a Fantasy, not an invitation. It
should be acted out only with the consent of all parties.
I know that their karma will catch up with them... it is just
a matter of time. <br><br>
***Update 9/5/08*** I have meet with many guys on here, and I have no repeats of
the two unpleasant encounters above. I've played
with many super kinky men, and been able to build trust to
do my above fantasy a couple times so far! Super Hot Fun!
<br><br>
I would love to make some new playmates, so hit me up if you
like super kinky fun! ;)

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Tied to My Bed

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Hard Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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