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ben2curious 57 / M
"Need proper training by bi couple or a good dom or domme"
Fanwood, New Jersey, United States
 
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ben2curious 57/M
Fanwood, New Jersey
Submissive but masculine
Introduction
I am newly bisexual (heteroflexible?). If you are interested, I would really like to hear from you. If you cannot send messages here, send to Having been straight, I have recently begun to explore my bisexuality, and I am ready for much more! I am very orally-oriented, and love going down on a woman. I have found that this oral fixation also extends to my interest in men. I am completely disease-free (and HIV-, tested annually - tested clean February 4, 2019), and very discreet. Expect the same from you. I'm also drug-free, but I am OK if you partake in some recreational drugs, though the list of acceptable drugs would be rather small. I'm not interested in guys who say that they are "straight", unless you are a member of a couple, and your wife/girlfriend will be joining us. When it comes to women, I am very sensual. I am into long kissing sessions, touching, caressing their bodies, oral sex, etc. When it comes to men, I tend toward submissive bottom. I like being told what to do, and I am really only interested in their cocks. I don't think that I can kiss a man, so if that is important to you, I'm probably not your guy. I also like it when my ass is played with, and if that is what you are into, and what you do, I am going to want you to fuck me with a strap-on (if a woman) or cock (if a man). I want to play with a nice clit and a nice cock. I am definitely looking for mutual oral, and jerking off. I like to feel a woman get wet and swollen, and similarly, I want to feel a cock get and stay hard. I want to learn how to service a hard cock. I would also like to try to bottom. With the right couple (or individual) I could also be open to more. I'm not into feet or armpits, blood, scat, water sports, knives, cross-dressing, or humiliation to name a few. I'm sure that there are other things that I'm not thinking about that are missing from the list. If you have any questions, just ask. I do not host. This could be a one-time thing, or possibly something more regular. If you contact me, please be able to confirm that you play safe. Also please be in a position to be able to [B]state clearly, and unambiguously that you have been tested fairly recently, and that your recent test results indicate that you are COMPLETELY STI/STD-free, including HIV-negative and HPV-free.[/B] Responses like "I'm married so I am safe" or "I'm good with the tests" are not direct enough. Please be clear and direct on this point. If this is not important to you, then we are not a good match. [B]Please include your test status (including testing date) when you contact me.[/B] I do NOT play until we have discussed testing status. Please don't ask me to hook up without making your test status very clear.

My Ideal Person A couple with a bisexual man and preferably with at least one dominant member and a female who gets off on M/M play.

A woman who enjoys being with two bisexual men, perhaps even enjoys directing the action.

Two tops.

A woman (or two) into pegging.

A couple, M/F, M/M, or even F/F.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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Information
  • 57 / male
  • Fanwood, New Jersey, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-sexual
Looking For:  Men, Women, Couples (man/woman), Couples (2 men) or Trans
Birthdate: January 1, 1967
Relocate?: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Height: Prefer not to say
Body Type: Athletic
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: Prefer not to say
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: No
Want Children: Maybe
Male Endowment: Prefer not to say/Prefer not to say
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
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