For about the past year I have been supressing the desire to have a woman join my fiance and myself but it is now time to act on that desire. While he will be a part of this with me, there won't be any sex between you and him. I like to try new things as long as there isn't any pain involved...except for my nipples...I love my nipples sucked hard after I am aroused. I enjoy toys although I only have a few, something I am hoping to change in the near future, starting with nipple clamps. I am not a "wild" woman in the bedroom but more of a laid back, take things as they come, enjoy the moment kind of lover. I am in no way a "sub" but I don't like to be in charge, I'd much rather my partner take the lead. I enjoy giving as much as receiving, I want the person I am with to be as happy and satisfied as myself. We are not Barbie and Ken. Both of us are very well groomed and attractive, not fat but have a few extra pounds. I am trimmed most of the time with an occassional Brazillian wax which I LOVE!! I have started a blog so please take a look at it. I'll have updates regularly...

My Ideal Person The woman I am looking for has to be out there. A woman who isn't shy or afraid in showing me this new lifestyle and helping me to fulfill this fantasy. I need a woman who is as sexual as myself, who is comfortable enough to guide me through this first experience, confident enough handle a no strings attached sexual relationship and secure enough not to have her feelings hurt if its just a one time thing.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
It would start with my fiance making love to me alone and then he'd bring out the silk scarves and tie my hands to the headboard and my feet to the footboard. After covering my eyes with a blindfold he'd start kissing me, deep and passionate then work his way down. Lingering at my breats, licking down my belly, finally I feel his tongue on my clit. While I am getting lost in how he makes me feel there is a new sensation. My nipples are being sucked. How? His head is between my legs? I feel a trace of hair brush against my skin letting me know it is a woman. After that....I lose total control.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A store dressing room, On our boat

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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