I am 6 foot, fit, and have been told I am handsome and well-endowed. I take care of myself with lots of cardio, free weights, and eating right. I live an active life-style and always on the go with high energy. I live in the moment with a positive attitude and when life gets challenging I look at it as an opportunity to learn and move forward. I like to believe I am one that is kind, considerate, caring, curious, funny, independent, and strong. I try to be an attentive lover who is playful, respectful, experimental, and curious, and I strive for mutual satisfaction. With the right woman and the slightest sensual attention I become putty in her hands. I'll be forthright and honest. I am married. We met when we were very young and have been married ever since. We are very different people with different drives and interest. Only over time did we realize that. I love to be playful, funny, experimental and curious and she is the total opposite of that. We have found we are so opposite it has lead us to a dull sexless life together with me still curious and playful with no outlet and a partner uninterested in anything intimate and internally self absorbed. This leave her uninterested in intimacy or curiosity for sex or even friendship and improving a relationship. She does not know I am here and would find it disgusting and would forbid it. She lacks the interest to understand what other's needs are and their interest. That is my reality. So I come here to escape my reality. To explore and express myself in ways I cannot in our relationship. To open my Pandora's chest and let my curiosity and spirit free in a place that is virtual and safe. Where I can share my intimate feelings with someone that is willing to hear them and to release my sexual energy in ways I can not in my real-time. I am here to enjoy chat, sexual conversation, the openness of people, and to express myself on CAM. Yes, I am a bit of an exhibitionist and it has been stifled all these years because of our relationship that refuses to allow open intimate expression. I harbor many fantasies and because of my long term relationship with someone not open to fantasies they have gone uncheck forever. The strongest of these fantasies is the playful curiosity of sexual male submissiveness. Something I allow myself to role play on CAM because of anonymity. The character that comes out I call TOY. The constant use of the name TOY in conversation is my submissive mind trigger which strips me of my socially vanilla armor, exposing a sexually submissive play toy. The use of the word TOY used in commands and demands during a CAM session can strip me naked, exposing me how you want to see me and makes me your puppet to perform. I'll seem hesitant and very reluctant which adds fun to the chase, but continued persistence with the word will win you control. If you find me on CAM, I enjoy all kinds of conversations. I like to get to know people and I let you get to know me. If you chose to take the path of control please note the more demeaning and demanding the conversation, the more it fuels my obedience and draws me to submit and the more entertainment you get and also provide others. I will not undress on CAM except when someone has taken control through TOY. The payoff is worth it for us both. But, remember, In the end, it is role play, and all in fun. TOY is a femdom fantasy. One that I wish I could do in my relationship for play and fun but is a no go. So it is express here. I am straight and adore women and love the love of a woman and her attention. But, I do have needs for release at times which I do not get in my real relationship and so there are times you will find TOY vulnerable enough in need for release that he will sometimes listen to a gentleman on CAM if that gentleman has figured out my secret of submission. This does not make me gay. It does not mean I desire men. It only means, I need release, being playful, and taking advantage of the resources at hand. If you find me on CAM, chat me up, I am easy to talk too. I am open and honest and will make the conversation worth your while. Who knows we might even become good friends. I also express and share my sexual fantasies through my pictures, blogs, stories. Feel free to leave comments on my pictures. stories, and blog and tell me what you think. I love the comments and would love to see more. Please note, in this virtual space this is my erotic mind gone wild and I am sharing its secrets with you. In my real time I am quiet and reserved.

My Ideal Person My ideal person is a woman who is fit and has a positive view on life and people, is full of curiosity, unselfish, enjoys physical touch and closeness, can openly expresses her passions and interests and likes to act out her fantasies.

A person who I would feel comfortable with to be open about my fantasies and interest. A caring, giving, understanding woman who takes the time to understand others and show genuine interest in their needs and feelings as I would do for her and others.

A woman who is comfortable going bra-less. Yes, I know, that is very piggish of me but, damn unharness breast are so beautiful and natural under garments why on earth would we want to harness them.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Being caught in a compromising position by a woman who uses
that her advantage and make be her part-time naked sex slave that cleans the house, takes care of the yard,
services her sexual needs, and provides her with perverse
entertainment and sometimes for a party of her friends.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Scarlett Johannson. She is beautiful, and I like the assertiveness
of the characters she plays as an actress.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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