It's taken a few years for me to realize I know desire a LTR with the right lady. Professional, easy-going, educated, romantic, very much a gentleman and also very open-minded. I enjoy long and in-depth conversations about most things as well as just "talk about the day" that was or will be. I love music, photography, movies, UT sports, and I'm moderate to progressive in all things political, social, theological, sexual. At times I do like being a bit submissive and it's always my goal to please a woman before I even consider my own pleasure. I can switch though too..... Or not to there at all. Depends on the lady and her desires. I'm much more about B&D than S&M.

My Ideal Person An angel who also has a wild side. A woman who is classy, yet sexy; sweet, yet sensual and kinky at times; and open minded, yet grounded. A lady, first and foremost, and yet someone who wants to explore more sensually and sexually.

You would ideally be early 40s to mid/late 50's (although that's not a strict requirement and I'm open to other ages), professional, very much a lady, and also open-minded, sensual and romantic.

You will tell your friends, "He's fun to be around, pretty easy to talk to, is romantic, and knows how read a situation and interact as needed. I can take him almost any place. Oh, and he's amaaaaaaazing at orally pleasing me. He even calls it oral worship and begs for more each time. His goal is always to make sure I'm pleased. And....well I shouldn't even tell you this."

Your friends: "Not fair, tell us!"

You: " He's monogamous to me, but I don't have to be and I can find a stud when I so desire. " Mic drop.

Your friends jaw drops. After a few stunned seconds: "Ahhhhh, we want one!"

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
You name it, I think I can fantasize about it; anonymous
sex; role plays; places.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, An airplane, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room, Anyplace outdoors

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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