Looking for bear type guys to hang out with for some fun. Mutual oral and J/O. Guys with beer guts are a big turn on. Also looking for men and couples to join in our mmf group in the Joliet area during the week. The mf couple of the group is in their mid 50's with some extra padding. Fun times in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. My wife and I occasionally have guys join us as well. If you are interested in that, let me know. Again, I like guys with some extra weight. I realize, and most of you do too, that getting together with people takes time, especially with getting a group together. Between differing schedules, cold feet, and finding a place to go it doesn't always work out immediately.

My Ideal Person If you have a belly, I'm likely interested. I like watching big older guys jerk off. I'm turned on by married guys who are curious about being with another guy. There is something to be said about that awkward excitement of curiosity.
I'd like to find some guys to hang out with socially too. So many of us have limited windows of opportunity to explore our sexuality. Opportunities like when the planets align, the wife and kids are gone, work isn't looming,and someone has a safe place to host. By making connections prior to needing to pull the trigger makes these opportunities easier to come by (no pun intended).