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discreteM4real 48 / M
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Elmhurst, Illinois, United States
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discreteM4real 48/M
Elmhurst, Illinois
Very laid back 45yo wm 5'10 180# shaved head, blue eyes iso female or couple looking to explore their fantasies. I am new to this but very ready & willing to explore mine. 7 1/2" cut, shaved, & V safe. Just looking for a playmates that share similar interests in & out of the bedroom. Very open to trying new things.

My Ideal Person A female or couple. Would prefer close to my age & hwp. There has to be some attraction but attitude & personally are more important than age, size or color. Hopefully something that could turn in to a long term friends with benefits situation. Someone experienced & knows what they want or a newbie looking to explore there kinky side.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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  • 48 / male
  • Elmhurst, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women, Couples (man/woman), Groups, Couples (2 women) or Trans
Birthdate: October 23, 1974
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Divorced
Height: 5 ft 10 in / 177-180 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I use some recreational drugs
Education: Prefer not to say
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Prefer not to say
Have Children: Yes. We live together.
Want Children: Happy with what I have
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Shaved
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: None
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