Are you in the closet? Need to chat with others who are in the closet? Ask me .. PANSEXUALISM??? Intriguing thought! ( not caring about what sexual identity the person is but caring about who they are ). “Fill what's empty. Empty what's full. Scratch where it itches." -- Alice Roosevelt Longworth "Let's be honest -- Sex feels good. It's nothing to be ashamed of, but to be enjoyed! I disagree that love and sex are the same thing! Love is emotional. Sex is biological. Sex with one you love is awesome, but you certainly don't have to love the person you are having sex with (I'm speaking strictly as a man)! People get so uptight about it, but they don't have to. Sex is about feeling good, exploring your body, having fun, and releasing tension. I mean, at least during and a little while after, you forget about the world and it's problems. A man finding a buddy to have sex with is an awesome thing! Two men helping each other out, respecting each other, and relaxing together -- its a good thing. Gay, straight, bi, it doesn't matter ... men are the most adept at knowing what feels good ... what buttons to push, and how hard! I've talked to many straight men over the years, and I honestly believe that being naked with another man doesn't make you gay! Two men can suck each other off, but still want to be with a woman. Am I justifying cheating? maybe ... but I don't think so. If your heart belongs to someone, I don't think sharing an orgasm with another man is going to change that. Just be safe! Most men have played around with another man when young and experimenting. It's something a guy never forgets about. Most get married thinking what happened will just go away, but never does. Then the wife stops with the sex and he either looks at other women but finds they have just too much baggage and want a commitment. So he checks out man porn and gets a hard on. Then he starts looking and meets. Maybe just gets a BJ or even sucks the other guy. After he leaves, he feels guilty, but the thoughts never go away. Repeat... While I am married in the closet, I love my wife, but am unsatisfied getting no sex now for years. And I have always loved being with a man too. At this point I need a man that can provide the sex I need on a regular basis. This is something women do not understand. After women go through menopause, many shut down on sexual activity. Men are different -- we NEED and WANT sex though our entire life. Maybe we don't need it as often as when we were young and jacked off and fucked as often as possible, but I sure still love sucking cock and getting blown weekly." -- Author Unknown (Listing on C L ) Don't allow my maturity to inhibit your curiousity! When desire meets experience a special chemistry takes place that turns into a treat for both. Be creative with me -- Show me YOUR fantasy, I don't mind! Now is not the time to be bashful!! 7 Benefits of sex with older men 1. Older men come slower – If you want a long, slow suck here's where to find what you want. 2. Older men are more sensuous – They've spent a lifetime of loving other people and are well prepared to show you what they've learned. 3. Older men are more patient – They've seen it all - they've done it all and they're more likely to be patient with newbie's and the curious. 4. Older men are more considerate – They've had a few failures in their lifetime and are more considerate and understanding when you have one. 5. Older men are less critical – They know from experience that good looks doesn't guarantee great performances and that sometimes good things come in small packages. 6. Old men's lips feel just as good around a cock as young lips – But over the years they've learned ways to enhance that feeling with a few tricks. 7. Older men know how to be discreet. They don't kiss and tell their friends because they'd like to keep you to themselves. --Author Unknown

My Ideal Person Treating others as brothers instead of competitors tends to put everyone on an even playing field. This allows the very best to come out of each individual if that is what is in his nature. It usually allows each to find the best companions in the short term and in the longer term.

I love to find a way to laugh WITH people. It diffuses tensions and allows for quicker introductions and comfortable familiarity each with the other.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
It is a most wonderful thought that someone else will take
the reins and lead the activities from time to time! Ahhhhhh!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, Curiousity

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
If allowed to do so, I try to treat every guy as a celebrity.
Why not??

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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