I guess its time for an update. Plain and simply, I am looking for that which I cannot find. I am looking for an attractive petite woman who needs to feel the passion an excitement of a lover, a single lover, in her life. I am seeking to fullfill the emptiness in my life. Let me describe what that means to me. Passion for one. Seduction is a lost art form. I enjoy the process of getting to know someone. The subtle things that make you look forward to getting an email or a txt message from someone. That undeniable passion that makes you yearn to see someone again. That overwhelming feeling of elation and butterflies I feel when I see her walk into the room. I don't need to fall in love for this to happen and I don't need you to fall in love with me. If love happens,it does. To me, love brings more with it than the icing on the cake. I am guarded when it comes to love. I have had my heart broken way too many times to just freely give my heart without trust. There are three qualities I expect and require from anyone I meet. Honesty, intregrity and respect. While you don't have to tell me everything, and some things will definately not be my business, just don't lie to me. Lies always eventually surface and when they do they create trust issues. Integrity is simple yet so hard for people to live up to. Simply, be true to your word. Respect yourself and have character and integrity will always be there. Respect. Seriously, doesnt anyone know how to respect someone anymore. Just treat someone the way you want to be treated. Don't play me. It is disrespectful. I am a man, not a boy. I can handle the truth. I may not like it all the time but I can handle the truth much easier than being told what I want to hear to only find out you were not sincere. If I can find someone who has those qualities I can be the most loyal friend you have ever encountered. While I know I am average looking, I have a heart of gold. I am thoughtful, sincere, honest and a gentleman. I do not want to change your life nor looking to change mine. I am not looking for a one night stand. I am not looking for cheap sex. I want to work for it. Working hard to get what you want only increases the chemistry and desire. I don't want it to be impossible either. I am not looking to exchange endless emails if there is no intention on taking this further. I am here seeking that "one" female who understands what I am looking for and once I find her I will be leaving this site. I hope to continue a long an ongoing NSA affair. I know that sounds like an oxymoron but it isn't. I do not want to have multiple encounters with multiple women. I want that one woman who can fullfill all my passions, fantasies and desires as I try to fullfill hers. In return I will shower her with attention and make her feel like a princess. If you think you have what it takes then take a chance. We both may end up very lucky and finally happy even if it has to be descrete!

My Ideal Person I am not gay. Guys don't bother. I respect all individuals sexual preference so please respect mine. I have absolutely no gay or bi curiousities. While you may think it is flattering I am really tired of the emails and the messages asking if you can suck me or taste me, etc. If I was looking for a guy I would make it very clear. So respect my sexual preferences as much as I respect yours and please don't message me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
we go shopping and while you are trying on a sexy dress or
lingerie I get so hot and bothered by your flirty seduction
that you can tell I want you and you quietly and descretly
pull me into the dressing room and unzip....the rest is
up to your imagination...but that would be hot!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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