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heshardshessoft 57 / 56 / C
"Returning from a break"
Turlock, California, United States
 
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Member Since: July 3, 2010

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heshardshessoft 57/C
Turlock, California
Introduction
UPDATE SEPTEMBER 2010******* IMPORTANT!!!! It has come to our attention that AFF is glitching and (amongst other things) displaying the data for men in couple's profiles. Instead of their data, the default "prefer not to state" is displayed. We look at these statistics when we're looking, we assume you look at it too. We finally asked one couple for more information because it was all "prefer not to state" and found out that this problem exists, even on our own profile. Depending upon how you view your data, it may appear to you that the information is completed on your profile but when you look at it as it is seen by others you may note that it is not displayed. What other errors are there? How many times has this cost us a flirt or a hook up? This is as impossible to know as how many homeless people, illegal aliens, or polar bears there are in any region. If this has shown itself to be a show stopper for you contacting or accepting contact from us, please do ask us to make up for AFF's failings until they ignore the email I sent them in the order it was received and fix this problem. Let's face it, these guys do get paid to look at porn all day long- can we really expect they are paying attention to their jobs? The move is completed, now it's just a matter of getting completely unpacked and settled in properly. We expect his family out to visit from back east for about a week, putting a damper on playtime. Don't get us wrong, it's good to see them but it would also be nice to get back to playing. We have some experience, but we took a break to focus on us for a while. We're back, and easing into things. Does that sound suggestive? Good, that was the idea! Single guys, please treat her like a LADY unless she tells you otherwise. This isn't a cattle call for any bulls who have a load of bull cum. There's a right way to approach her and a wrong way. The wrong way will quickly become the highway. 'Nuff said? We play safe, prefer V-safe men, and are a little picky about who we're with. We're not hedonists, but we do want to have fun! We like to meet first, then move on to the fun if we're all attracted.

My Ideal Person We're looking for a couple or single women who we can relate to both in and out of the bedroom. The single women are for his MFF fantasy. She prefers men at least as tall as she is, baby faces and slight men don't "warm her box". We aren't looking for single males at the moment, but it's not something we would never do again. We enjoy sexting, emails and chatting with those who can offer more than "show me your tits". For those who are 420 friendly, we'd like to point out that we don't partake and we don't want that in our house or around us. If that's what you want to do, that's fine but we have too much to lose professionally to risk being too intimately involved with things that could threaten licenses and reputations. Boring and stuffy perhaps, but those are our preferences.

Information
  • 57/56 / Couple (man/woman)
  • Turlock, California, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Straight / Straight
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Marital Status: Divorced
Swinger Type: Sex with others
Speaks: English
Our Trophy Case:
 
His
Her
Birthdate: March 29, 1967 May 28, 1967
Height: 5 ft 11 in / 180-182 cm 5 ft 9 in
Body Type: Average A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a light/social smoker I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker I'm a light/social drinker
Education: High school graduate Some college
Race: Caucasian Caucasian
Male Endowment: Average/Thick N/A
Circumcised: Yes N/A
Bra Size: N/A 38 / 85 DD (E, if no DD)