40 y.o. hispanic crossdresser 5'6 180lbs. smooth mostly wear lingerie. looking for new experiences must be clean ddf, play safe and be discreet. I cannot host so don't ask, can travel some but need planning ahead of time. I am attatched but only play on the side. I am fairly submissive and like men who know what they want not into shy guys. I enjoy oral, spankings, light bdsm, roleplay, being told what to do maybe more. Not into anything gross and do not give anal may take depending on the situation. Kinky is good and discretion a must. Anyone off of 79 and mays round rock a plus.

My Ideal Person I am open to men, women, couples, groups etc. I am clean ddf and would prefer to stay that way. Only play safely. I am fairly submissive and like to be told what to do. I have many fantasies and luv to please. Age is not an issue with me but there are a few things that turn me off. Too hairy a guy is a big turn off and so is someone who cannot be discreet. I enjoy spankings, taking orders, secluded outdoor play, light bdsm and nothing gross. It may take me some time to meet in person but I am worth it. Just no crazies. couples are a plus.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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