Good sex is good for my soul. Great sex is better for my mind. Fantastic fabulous sex is heavenly for my entire being. I have many other interests in life, and while I value healthy, loving sexual interaction, I can get the job done by myself if necessary. Not nearly as satisfying emotionally, but a lot less frustrating than expending time and energy climbing ivory towers with no hope of access, and no real love. I don't know what people mean when they speak of casual sex. For some, I guess it means no depth of feeling. Not my cup of pee-hole tongue-lathering if there is no sincere attraction with some prospect for deeper commitment. At least an encore, honey. I am a good teacher and a better student. Want to share your treasures of the heart with someone who is real and caring? Get a pet --- one who pets back and can carry on a conversation while dancing up against your warm, wet cuzzy. I am volunteering, practically no maintenance required.