Let me share a bit about myself. I am in my early 40’s and am 5’11” and about 180 pounds (really I am!). I am a professional man so, I don’t provide a picture online because of my work, but I will be glad to email it to you. Just say the word. I stay in shape by walking and horseback riding. I am also really active and love to snow ski. Flying to places that still have snow in May and June or year round is something I do often. Golf is also one of my passions. I try to get on the golf course several times a month. I am pretty easy going and like to have stimulating conversations and a few laughs as often as possible. I like listening to Blues, Classic Rock (I.e ,Rolling Stones,Moody Blues, KISS, Skynard). I will go to Clear Lake or Lake Tahoe for concert. Beautiful scenery and good music…now that is my type of weekend! I socialize with people from a variety of different cultures and socio-economic backgrounds. My life has been, well let say, interesting. I have met and talked to a lot of interesting people in my life. Even so, I like being connected to down-to-earth real people. I consider myself to be, just that, down-to-earth and direct. I have a and a . If you have a dog, you get extra points. If you like horses or own them yourself, then you receive extra points. I don’t lie, play games or ruin someone’s emotional well-being. After all, I am looking for someone who will show me the same courtesy.

My Ideal Person Let’s get to what I am looking for: I want a woman who has a quiet confidence. She has been hard working and is a self-made woman. I like people who have an entrepreneurial side, even if they are working in corporate America. She can even be nasty in the workplace if the situation calls for it. But she needs to leave nasty at work. I don’t do “nasty” in relationships. You know how to “shift” gears from work to the relationship.

The other “nasty” comes later....

I desire someone who has good emotional maturity. I am a low drama guy, looking for a low drama girl. A sense of grace and poise in a social situation or in business is something that makes me wildly attracted to a woman. She can be analytical and strategic, but find humor in the things that arise both at work and in life.

The woman that will capture my heart will be intellectually smart and stimulating, but even wiser in the area of street smarts. I love a woman who is direct and a good communicator. That scores real points with me. I want to make the woman in my life happy. But I need to know what she needs. Surprise! I am willing to listen! I am willing to ask for good directions.

If you love activities like golf, skiing, concerts, going to Shark’s games in San Jose, the mountains, the beach, and Sonoma County to take in the scenery.