*** As of Oct 1, 2022 His profile on adultFriendFinder is bottomly9 Only looking for him to play -- man on man. Gay, Bi, Straight -- whatever. Depending on the interaction and vibe, perhaps she might join at some point in the future. But right now, it is just one-on-one with him. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*** TLDR; this is primarily about him. He's looking for a lover. kissing, touching, foreplay, talking, laughing, oral, rimming, and anal. (he does not top). She is the possible bonus to our triad--but will play when she's ready. We've been happily married 20 years and he just came out as gay+1. She's his plus one. We are laid back, intelligent, funny, creative. We've got busy lives, , and don't want to waste anyone's time. We are NOT looking for a "Bull", or cuckold PERIOD. This is about him and exploring his sexuality--and she will decide her level of involvement. Pushy and aggressive alphas will be shut down quickly. We are 420 (edibles and occasional vape--not smoking) and shroom friendly. Nothing else. Sex on shrooms is a complete religious spiritual emotional tsunami--would love to share it with someone one day.

My Ideal Person Looking for a somewhat handsome man. Don’t need to be a 10 or perfect but visual attraction is important to her. HWP, hygiene is important. DDF of course. Clean shaven preferred. Willing to go slow and looking for eventual longer term relationships. She is fairly selective.

You must be totally bi, a top or vers, and are ok playing with him fully (passionate bottom). Fully means kissing, touching, oral everything (mutual), and anal (condoms 100% required for that.)

Multiple cummers very welcome.

Must have recent tests. Condoms required for penetration. No exceptions. We'd relax it in future but that only comes with trust.

He is on PrEP, vaxxed for covid, menengitis, monkeypox.

We need some sort of connection with you. We aren't just going to hookup same night. We are parents, we have busy jobs and lives. We're in this for the long haul. So we value quality over quantity. Also, we're fairly liberal and if you are libertarian or Trumpy republican, we just aren't going to get along. Mental connection and conversation are a must. We will require getting together for coffee or dinner first since this is new ground for us.

We'll need full body shots, cock pics, and eventually face pics or we won't proceed.

Turn offs: pushy men, people who don't read the profile and understand that we aren't going to just hookup tonight, bad hygiene, MAGA/conservatives, inexperienced men (sorry--we aren't a training ground - we have limited time)

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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