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n0tYourHotMess 54 / F
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KC, Missouri, United States
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n0tYourHotMess 54/F
KC, Missouri
Just because you don't understand what's going on don't mean it don't make no sense. Just because you don't like it don't mean it ain't no good. And let me tell you something before you go taking a walk in my world you better take a look at the real world because this ain't no Mister Rogers Neighborhood. Can you say feel like shit yeah maybe sometimes I do feel like shit I ain't happy about it but I'd rather feel like shit than be full of shit. And if I offended you I'm sorry but maybe you needed to be offended. So here's my apology and one more thing, fuck you because you can't bring me down

My Ideal Person Cant you see how easily youre bothered by persistance,one step from lashing out at were near to get under my skin and call yourself a friend.ive got more friends like you what'll i do?is there no standards anymore...what it takes...where ive cant be something youre yourself
By yourself
Stay away from me
A lesson learned in life,known from the dawn of time

----Respect,or walk
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  • 54 / female
  • KC, Missouri, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Looking For:  Men
Birthdate: December 21, 1967
Relocate?: Maybe/Yes
Marital Status: Single
Height: 5 ft 5 in / 165-167 cm
Body Type: Average
Smoking: Prefer not to say
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: Prefer not to say
Education: High school graduate
Occupation: Fire restoration
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Spiritual
Bra Size: 34 / 75 B
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Blonde
Hair Length: Long
Eye Color: Gray
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses
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