If you don't know what BDSM is or how to treat a mistress, then do not waist my time.

My Ideal Person Right now, I am mainly looking for friends that are into the lifestyle with similar interests to mine. I am not looking for relationships right now, I am not ruling out the possibility though either. Also, I am not really looking for play partners either, but again I am not ruling out the possibility. But really I am looking for friends first, if something blossoms from there, then that's great. If not, then I would much rather have the friend anyway.

I do like girls with some meat on their bones, actually I REALLY like a girl with meat on her bones, but superficial looks aren't that important to me.

Okay Doms, feel free to message me or add me. But under no circumstances will I be submitting to you, go stroke your fragile ego somewhere else! We can talk, be friends, trade advice, you can submit to me or maybe even play as equals. I think that I have to much Scottish and Irish in me to ever submit to anyone.

Even though I am a Dom during playtime, I do LOVE going down on a woman, (front and back door). Actually, if you get to know me better, you'll find my approach to being a Dom is quite unorthodox in many ways. I tend to model my approach according to the sub's desires and fantasies. As far as bedroom play goes, I am more of a Master of Ceremonies as opposed to a Sex Nazi. I consider sex MY own production, and I am the Director/Producer. But if you are lucky enough to attend, then I shall make sure you enjoy the show! Hey, it is my style, deal with it or take a hike.

A few other so called Doms have even questioned if I am a real Dom, (I am actually proud of their questioning of my unusual ways). Of course, none of them have actually said anything to my face and I always find out from a loyal third party, proving (to me at least) whom the actual "real Dom" is.

I am DEFINITELY NOT looking for random hook ups.

Also under no circumstances will I be giving you my money. So, do not think you will be scamming me with some sob story about your bills or how you need to pay some body back. If you are not financially responsible, don't think I will be coming to save the day. I have no use for you. Get a fucking job like everyone else.

NO, if you are a gender male, then I am not interested in you. If you do not know what that means, then it especially means you, so don't bother. Do feel free to add me, look at my pictures and compliment me though, I like that.

NO, I am not going to cam with you and NO, I am not going to have phone sex with you. NO, I am not going to hook up with you just because you sent one message. NO, I am not some slut, it takes a lot of time and effort to win me over. YES, you will have respect for me as a DOM. AND YES the above applies especially to you too! I am getting really tired of having to ignore my messages.

Okay I never thought I would be talking about this. I have been getting offers of money to dom people lately. Okay I am not a professional dom or a hooker. I suppose if someone wants to pay me for the privilege of sniffing my feet, getting pissed on or getting their asses beat by my flogger that would be okay. But no sex will be taking place.