We have been in the lifestyle in the past but not for the last few years. We have fun fantasizing about it but aren't looking hard. If it happens, it's great but it needs to be the right per/people. We would love to find someone we can hang out with inside and outside of the bedroom. We enjoy watching sports and spending time with friends. We both have a little extra poundage (she wears a size 10/12 depending on the make) but we are a good looking couple that can find a way to laugh in any situation. Recently our lifestyle was made public on a message board by a third party. This party learned about our lifestyle through a mutual friend who also swings. She was telling him about her experiences and how we had met. So this ass thought it would be funny to go to the message board that we frequent and allude to the fact I had been to a swingers club. For that rea we may be gun shy and hesitant. We must have absolute trust not just for us but because our careers and families depend on our discretion. If you don't mind taking the time to get to know us and letting us gain your trust I promise it will be worth it. On another note, there is an overabundance of single men on here. We have met our quota for now.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Threesomes, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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