I'm 42, have a good life perally and professionally, and would love to enhance that with the right friend (hopefully with a bit of a freaky side.) A bit of a sub at heart, slightly bi-curious but only in the right situation, and not even sure what that is yet, lol. DDF, mentally stable and responsible, really just looking for likeminded friends (responsible adults who privately like to have a little fun) for good, memorable times. Disclaimer: Not my first time on this site, so I know it's about 90% guys, 95% of whom are more horny than smart, and thus ready to jump in right away with whoever gives them the opportunity. I'm not. Though I am here looking for pretty much the same thing as everyone else, I plan to do my due diligence with anyone I'd consider hooking up with, and would expect they do the same. I know I'm worth the extra effort, and wouldn't want to mess around with anyone who doesn't feel the same way about themselves.

My Ideal Person Definite preference for those older than I am...