I try to guard my heart very carefully, I have been a poor steward of who I give my heart in the past. Albert Einstein said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, I am not one of those guys! I am very careful now I have spoken with women from other countries and other states that are just trying to get something or nothing. I, like you are searching for the real meal deal if you would like to call it that (the real thing), or just have sex. I try to incorporate the five A's into every relationship which our acceptance, appreciation, attention, affection, and allowing and I try to do these without blaming, judging, or justifying! I love to read, I believe it is better to gain knowledge from 1000 people's experiences than to try 1000 times to gain one experience! Now I guess you are framiliar with me as far as my likes and dislikes in where I am going in life. My favorite food is Italian food, but I like all food! I really have no dislikes as far as food! I like all music except although I have been known to listen to a little of that. My favorite music is jazz, jazz helps put my puppy to sleep and I like to listen to it as well, but alternative is a close second as well as classical so you can see my interests are vast and varied!! Typically I like women that have red hair, slender, and have a bust of at least 34B cup, I also like black women, but to actually say that a woman has to be within these guidelines is not only shallow but insignificant! I am more in touch with who a woman is, inside as well! I like chick flicks, and romantic comedies! I do not care for horror movies. I do like some action movies but not a lot of them. I actually like gardening! I really appreciate authenticity, as well as being as I've authentic as I possibly can! I do not care for people who tried to put on a façade (people who are inauthentic). Currently I am going to school studying psychiatry, as I love the brain and how it works! Formerly I was a heavy equipment operator and drove the biggest truck in the world for six years which I had enjoyed doing! I can get along with anybody although I do not enjoy spending time around people who are not of like mind! One of my biggest fascinations in life, is learning!! I love to learn! I am a big believer in God although I spent about eight years studying Buddhism! I feel my experiences with Buddhism have really helped me in my life! I am a very sensitive man! I used to spend a lot of time in the gym although I have lost the drive to be more appealing on the outside and have gained the drive to be more appealing on the inside!! I hope this is giving you a little insight into my life! Oh yeah I currently live alone with a dog, she is a Papillion so as you know there are small dogs and I love her dearly!