Adventure is what I am after, in all its forms....But considering the site I find myself on, it is pretty clear the type of adventure I am in search of. What I really want is wild, intense, explosive and unique sex. By unique I mean each time is different. If I wake up, wet, confused and unable to move my body, then we have accomplished something. If not, well we should try and try again until we get it right. Father says, don't be a quitter. I am currently sitting in the (PVG) airport or Pudong..Sounds wildly erotic, doesn't it. So if anyone has flown China Eastern between Japan and Oz, you will know what type of wait I am in for here. So, needless to say I am a bit bored..rephrase that, I lack stimulation. So I thought I would ramble on in my profile...yes, lucky us. That is what the world needs more of, another per with ideas and thoughts so great they have to be out in the universe. Firstly, I will admit, none of this will be ground-breaking, but I thought I would go through some of my history and less I have learned on good old AFF, or as it is commonly known "Oh, so you are actually a very fat weird guy in his bathroom". I am trying to coin that(OSYAAAVFWGIHB) mm, I will keep working on it. Since most people don't read past the first few lines, this should be as safe as putting these thoughts under lock and key in a dream journal> So I have been on AFF for a while and have lived and travelled to several locations during that time and have been thrilled by the unique communities in each part of the world. I find that there is no true and tried method to ensure to capture someone's attention...for example the cock picture...This was really a difficult choice for me. It was short of like deciding what color to paint your house to ensure the best resale value. Frankly, I would have preferred to put a face picture up, but more people would recognize my face than my cock..thank God, right. So the first picture I put up was a body shot...not a lot of activity, then a short of bottom half Phantom of the Opera face shot...just weird, really. Then after meeting one couple, I was advised that I either should bite the bullet and put up a face shot(not an option, don't want to see my image stolen and used on some profile that doesn't meet with my highly exacting standard...you know like a wiccan midget Japanese rope bandage type)shocking. Or the other option offered was the aforementioned cock shot...ahh and the universe shudders. So one day I sat down with a glass of vino, checked the lighting, made my likkle fella feel comfortable..stage fright and all. And did the deed. wasn't sure of the angle or if I should have dressed it up with a hat, so I just went all natural, like ohh I didn't see you standing there. Well, I started to actually get a lot more hits in the coming months, although I must admit they were not coming from the side of the field I normally cut my teeth on. Which, ok that is bound to happen. But what really got to me were the fakes that were men pretending to be women. You know, there is something to be said for a Man that just comes right out and says..Look, I am a dude and I want to do some things with that cock of yours..I mean he has all the right..I did just put the thing out there in full color. But the others that are talking for their girlfriend or have the glamour shot photos...well I just can't fathom the time and effort and what is the end game. So anyway, I have met quite a few nice couples over the years. And the funny thing it isn't the least bit what I came in looking for. I was kind of looking for a FWB type of situation, but I am pretty sure the cock picture has limited my exposure(pun intended)t the single female. You know it seems to say something about a guy. Although I think it is not communicating me properly...but I think I explained my dilemma. So anyways, I started to get a lot of interest from couples and I bawked a couple of times, but then I thought adventure, right. So he first couple I met was really interesting. They were new to it, I was new to it. There was a lot of chatting and getting to know each other which is always a nice thing, but I could tell that we all where looking at this big fat elephant just staring at us. This unspoken idea was sitting heavy on every word and conversation. And since neither of us had ever done such a thing we didn't know how to proceed. I could tell the husband(and he remembers) was thinking how do I get this thing to happen without being a complete asshole to my wife and making this guy think I am an unhinged lunatic. Me on ther hand was thinking..well you just don't grab a man's wife and start in on it...that would just be rude. And from later conversations the wife was thinking..I wish both these asses would stop all the small talk and put something in a hole and we could move right through this awkwardness. Needless to say we got through it and actally became longtime partners and friends. We laugh about it now. I look back on this fondly, because now after years of this I have discovered that every couple has a different level of comfort and limits. Some are very shy and you have to date and caress or just the opposite they are shy and need you to take charge. I used to have this one method for hy couples, I will call it the "oh you grew hands and another cock". I would get the couple to engage one another and let them get hot and heavy, then I would just slide in all casual like...and the wife or girlfriend would realize extras are happening after they were happening. It like pulling off a bandaid.Some are looking for someone rough and ready and others think they are, but realize they are not. So what is enjoyable is learning a couple and their intricacies..It is just like dating and is very exciting. Now years on I have found that balance and I love to be able to morph into what a couple needs o the fantasy to come true..(I know it isn't a public service, but it is wonderful nonetheless) Well, I am going to move, this bench is making my ass numb. Maybe I will write a blog one day..this is actually a good way to while away dead time. Another time my horny intrepid travelers. To the next adventure

My Ideal Person I am looking for people that are not only adventurous inside the confines of the bedroom, but also outside. An intelligent person with a good sense of humour would be a plus. I love sarcasm and wit.However if your as dull as a butter knife, but you can shag like a wild banshee, that would score you some points. I have a bell curve on my requirements.

FWB: Couple or girl. Someone that is comfortable with who they are and what they are and wishes to explore whatever may come. I like to be with people that can laugh in the most awkward of moments and find humor in how human and stupid e all are.

Relationship: all of the above applies. One caveat, many times when you meet a person and are dating they are afraid to share intimate details of wh they are for fear of you thinking less of them. Tha is one of the few benefits of this site, generally speaking the people you meet are already out there and in fact it I at first shocking to realize how normal the real ones are.