I am a bisexual female from the South Sound area. I am 5'3" with reddish-brown hair and grey and gold eyes. I am plump, with a curvaceous figure. I am mixed race, so if you have issues, please take them elsewhere. I have been here on AFF on and off since the 1990s. I am fortunate to have several long-time friends here. I am a true friend and confidante. I know who I am and what I am about. I know my worth. Please feel free to message me (not IM) or to say hi in chat. I am extremely outgoing. I enjoy meeting new people. You can often find me in the Pacific Northwest or BBW/BBM chat rooms. I am currently married to a nice guy that I met through AFF. Unfortunately, his libido vanished and I tired of years of celibacy and loneliness. I also met my late husband here on AFF. I am sapiosexual. My interests include the arts and culture, the outdoors, antiques and collectibles, watching sports and sharing good food and a good laugh. I am politically liberal and generally open-minded. I love most music and I am an avid reader. I enjoy reading erotica. I enjoy authentic conversations. I am a non-smoker who drinks alcohol only very occasionally. I am drug free. WARNING: To any institutions using this site, or any of its associated sites, for studies or projects: you do NOT have my permission to use ANY of my profile information (including text and/or photographs) in any form, or forum, both currently and/or in the future. If you have already done so, or intend to do so, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy, and the violation will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice.

My Ideal Person I am looking to connect with friends who share my interests. I value honesty, integrity, trustworthiness, a sense of humor, and someone who knows how to have a good time.

I don't have the time and patience for a lot of drama. I won't be rushed.

I do not date men under 40. Manners matter to me and I will not abide rude people. I am now retired from being a unicorn.

Update January 2023: I am blessed to have a great relationship with a fantastic man here. He's the only man that I am currently having sex with.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
If you want to know, you will have to get to know me. ;)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, Chemistry and the ability to keep up with me

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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