5'9" 195# hairy stocky guy looking for sex, friends, laughs, adventure. I've been called masculine or butch but I don't like to say that cause, well, you ever notice how that's usually BS when you see it online? oh well. I value my honesty, sanity, good humor, and humanity, though I'm far from perfect. I play safe and tend to avoid out-of-control people, preferring respect and self-respect in others. I believe that even casual sex or a one night stand has an emotional side, if it's any good anyway. If that freaks you out, we probably wouldn't click anyway. 7.5 in uncut, pierced. versatile mostly top, depending on the who I'm with etc. Of course, anal sex isn't everthing (though it is pretty damn fun). I'm all about exploring the options.

My Ideal Person Mostly looking for men who just want some fun. NOT looking for a boyfriend. Male couples, please be stable and sure of what you want. M/F couples, I'd probably want to play mainly with your guy. We'll see, maybe you can expand my horizons.

YOU: get extra points for
-- being in decent shape and having some muscle, but not necessarily mtv-steroid-jock pretty. keeping my expectations realistic.
-- body and/or facial hair. Not necessary but the look and feel are huge turn-ons for me.
-- mainly, being confident in your own ability to have fun, let go, and enjoy sharing your sex with another person. That's 75% of sexy to me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
1 --- You're a virgin.
You've thought about being with a man for so long, now
you know you want it for real. It's your greatest desire
but also pretty damn scary. It's ok, we can take all
night to get there. I can be very patient, I know you're
worth it. It's gonna feel so good, better than you imagined,
when you let go & let it happen. Come here, you'll
feel a lot less nervous if I give you a massage. I have pretty
good hands. Just lay down here, of course you can take your
shirt off. There, I can feel you relaxing already... much
better... now maybe you're ready for me to take those
pants off too?
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2 --- You're experienced.
Gone to the parties, seen the clubs, taken the cruises.
You've had some really great sex in those years of looking,
some incredibly hot men who've taught you countless
little secrets. You've had to take really good care
of yourself to keep up. All the workouts, all the risks negotiated...
You have a few scars on the inside and the outside of that
muscled frame and the hair on your chest is spreading to
your back and turning salt-and-pepper. It doesn't
matter: finally know what you're doing. You know what
you want and how to make it happen. You've come full
circle and now you realize that the happiness you've
been looking for is the happiness you've been creating
all along. Can I be next? please?
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3 --- You're straight.
Your woman gives you the best sex you've ever had but
she's a total freak. She pushes your limits in every
way. Now she wants to watch you get fucked by a guy... You're
not gay, she's just that twisted. Can you handle it?
Are you man enough to take it like that? Let's find out.
She's gonna cum so big when she sees the look on your
face... It's ok bro, I'm not gonna hurt ya, I swear
this is gonna be a lot of fun for all of us. See, getting sucked
by a guy is a lot like by a girl. There's a few things I
can do that she can't though. See? it's nothing
to be afraid of, you've seen guys naked before. Look,
it's just like yours. Yeah you can touch it. Get used
to it, you're gonna know it a lot better real soon...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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