I have been mostly straight my entire life.....about 10 years ago I discovered that I can enjoy being with a guy.....just have not done very much about it. My experience with guys is limited, but am willing to learn more and try more. My few get together involved mutual strokes and oral with one accidental penetration on me that was intense. I guess I just would like to meet a guy or two that are pretty sane, gay or bi, fit and willing to help me expand my experiences. Is that asking for too much? Would be great to meet up with someone that enjoys working out, getting outside, and can appreciate good bourbon or rum.