We where in the lifestyle a few years ago. Now we are looking to try again slowly. To find a couple or single lady. Male is the more sexual one of the couple. So in a couple we are looking for would be where the female is the more sexual one. We would also like to meet the first time in public. For a dinner or whatever, before anything sexual happens. We don't like going out to swing clubs anymore. We would rather become friendly enough to play at each others home. My wife is more into soft swing and watching, where I an more into full swap. If you would be cool with that. We would love to hear back from you.

My Ideal Person Our ideal couple would be where the lady is the more sexual of the couple that we could become friends with. Any single female that we could become friends with, but we mean "single" single, divorced or widowed My wife is into the single Lady's as much as the other Lady's are comfortable with. She is good with newbies as well as the more experienced, but she is not attracted to every female just like she may not be into every guy either, but that does not mean we can't be friends.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Her-Young Arnold Scarwrnger and The Rock. Him- No More
into real people.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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