Cannot answer e-mails or see who hotlists me. Oli_ blanks at the why-who place. If I add you to my hotlist, it's to send a message to say "Hi". Have to wonder what it would be like to be cuddling with someone, getting intimate, and reach between her legs and find something very similar to what's between my legs. Married, bi, 79 yo dirty ol' man from Tucson, AZ. Love to swap e-mails, tell stories, even a few lies and converse about almost anything. I enjoy music, reading, pets, cooking on the grill, camping, fishing, gardening, and swapping e-mails about just about anything. I retired from the military more years ago than I like to admit. In the course of my career we lived in Mississippi, East Texas, Taipei and Tainan Taiwan. Missouri, Alabama, Arizona and New Mexico. After retirement we made three more moves, finally landing in Tucson, AZ. I am a prostate cancer survivor and without a prostate, can no longer ejaculate. I lost 50% of the erection controlling nerves and have not had a normal erection since mid August, 2002. I also drip occasionally. To get an erection I use a penis pump and cock ring, which works fine. And, by the way, I can still have a magnificent orgasm.