I want to make new friends. I have been alone too long. When I was growing up, I believed that all things were temporary. I did not believe relationships could last. As a result, I never tried to settle down, and I never had s, this has left me lonely and alone. Now I want to try to fix that part of my life. I know things can last longer than I thought possible, and I feel as if I have missed out on some essential part of life by not starting a family of my own. This doesn't mean I want to marry and start having babies, I think that ship has sailed. But I do believe the right woman is out there for me, to be my friend, lover, and companion.

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Wanted: Intelligent woman for companionship, conversation, and more. A sense of humor is essential. I prefer open minded, accepting, non-judgmental people. I have to build trust, so it takes me a while to warm up, and if you are assertive and out-going, that is an advantage. Personality and attitude trump physical beauty in my opinion. Compassion and understanding are big bonus points, as are affectionate, seductive, sexy, and imaginative.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Dave Matthews, dead kennedys, led zeppelin, pink floyd

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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